Health and Wellbeing
The Importance of Self-Care when Caring for Children Experiencing Extreme Behaviours
Looking after yourself is part of supporting children with extreme behaviour, and it starts with noticing when you're past your limit.
- 59 minutes
- Recorded webinar
- 1 CPD hour
- Certificate
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What you'll learn
- Use the window of tolerance to spot when you're moving into overwhelm or shutdown
- Check in with yourself using four questions when stress starts to build
- Recognise early signs of compassion fatigue and burnout in yourself and colleagues
- Set boundaries and make small, realistic changes that recharge you
- Know where to turn, including confidential help from Education Support
About this course
Calming other people's children all day tends to leave your own stress at the bottom of the list. Then it shows up somewhere else. You're snappy with colleagues, you volunteer for everything, or you get home, offload on your family and feel guilty about that too.
This course helps you catch it earlier. The window of tolerance shows you when you're drifting out of your calm, present zone, either into overwhelm or into shutting down. Four quick questions (how do I feel, where do I feel it, what do I need, who can help?) turn that into something you can act on in the moment. You'll also look at compassion fatigue, boundaries and who's in your support network.
A former NHS mental health nurse with 25 years in the field leads it, and it's as useful for spotting a colleague who's struggling as it is for you.
- For early career teachers, mental health leads and 6 other roles. All phases.
Recording
Open in order
- 4 min
Introduction
- 3 min
If You Can’t Do it for You, Do it for Them …
- 2 min
Check In
- 3 min
Why Boundaries are Important
- 4 min
The Importance of Self Care
- 6 min
Let’s do an exercise …
- 6 min
Our Window of Tolerance
- 6 min
Warning Signs to Look Out For
- 5 min
Some Framing of Overwhelm
- 2 min
Containing Our Containers
- 7 min
Self Care
- 4 min
Responsive Relationships
- 3 min
Be Kind to Yourself
- 4 min
If you have worries or concerns …
- 4 min
Do you have a toolkit?
- 5 min
Q&A
PowerPoint and Useful Links

